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Sometimes the most meaningful part happens when you stop going anywhere.
After three days of carefully planned Caribbean excursions, an unexpected day of doing nothing reveals a deeper lesson about contentment, life, and retirement.
gmaylone
6 hours ago6 min read
"The Phantom Tenants in Our Minds”
Sometimes the people living rent-free in our heads aren't actually there. We maintain the memories ourselves, giving away precious time and mental space to things we cannot change. One conversation with an old friend made me realize I had been maintaining an empty apartment for thirty years.
gmaylone
Sep 298 min read
Whatever “It” Turns Out to Be! Our Mediterranean Journey.
Rome was hers to share with me. Pompeii was mine to share with her. The places in between belonged to neither of us yet. Somewhere along the Mediterranean, an anniversary trip became an unexpected sneak peek at whatever comes next.
gmaylone
Aug 288 min read
Countdown Clock of Life: The Day a Milestone Became a Mile Marker
Standing on a rainy dock in Sitka, Alaska, my 50th state checkbox was complete. But looking at an ancient totem pole, the realization hit me: the clock moving time forward had suddenly changed into a countdown clock.
gmaylone
Jul 107 min read
The Debt We Create When We Say “Next Time"
Some years ago, I found myself standing on a quiet, grey street in a small German town. It was a place I hadn’t seen in decades—the neighborhood where I lived as a young soldier in the Army with my family.
Since then, life has taken many turns, divorce, jobs, oh so many countries, states, places, and faces have come and gone.
Now here I stood holding my wife's hand, the weight of decades now past hanging around us, just standing there, staring, processing.
gmaylone
Apr 307 min read
The Victory Lap: Meeting the Man I Left Behind
Over the last few months, I’ve found myself alone with my thoughts in a way I haven't been for what feels like a lifetime. It’s been a strange feeling—like walking into a room of a house I’ve owned for years but had not entered for so long I had forgotten most of the details that had once made it home. The mental space that had been occupied by deadlines, global logistics, and the relentless pressure of responsibility was suddenly empty. The tenant who had lived there for dec
gmaylone
Apr 145 min read
Soulware™: The Pattern Behind the Person
There are thoughts that don’t arrive loudly.
They don’t crash in or demand attention. They just show up one day, settle into a corner of your mind, and wait for you to notice them.
This one started that way.
It came to me slowly, building as tiny, intricate pieces that eventually formed a mosaic — something I could finally step back from and see clearly.
gmaylone
Mar 248 min read
Why Someday Is a Dangerous Word
Days turn into weeks, weeks into months, and before we know it, moments with family slip away without us fully appreciating them.
Last year, a spontaneous decision to take my in-laws on a cruise turned into one of the most unforgettable experiences we’ve shared.
This story is a reminder that “someday” can be a dangerous word when it comes to making memories.
Sometimes you have to take the time to make the time now.
gmaylone
Mar 165 min read
Life Doesn’t Always Follow the Plan
We like to fool ourselves into thinking our lives can be planned and will unfold like a carefully drawn map.
We plan our careers, set goals for family life, imagine the house we will live in someday, and picture what we will do when we retire.
Yep, planning feels good.
It gives us a sense of control and security.
After all, when we have a roadmap, we feel like we know where we are going and what comes next.
You’ve all heard it before:
“If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.”
gmaylone
Mar 145 min read
Breaking Free: Detoxing Your Mind after the 9-to-5 ends.
I never thought I’d find myself scheduling my own day like a staff meeting.
Yet there I was, at 6 a.m., resisting the urge to check my email and still feeling like my administrative assistant should be walking in with my calendar and briefing book for the day.
It hit me then: decades of adapting to policies, acronyms, and rigid schedules had wired my brain into a constant state of risk management and over-planning.
Retirement, I realized, wasn’t just about leaving work behin
gmaylone
Mar 34 min read
Time Comes Collecting
Youth often feels like a time of endless energy and resilience. We are magically invincible during those early years.
We move freely, take risks, and rarely pause to consider the long-term effects of our actions.
Even when Mom is warning us "you will feel that when you get older".
Yet, as the years pass, our bodies begin to tell a different story, often filing grievances and protests.
Aches in our knees, the stiffness in our backs, and the subtle changes in our ap
gmaylone
Feb 134 min read
The Slow Thinning of Shared Life
We recently had dinner with some friends.
Having dinner with friends is certainly not a new occurrence, but also not what it used to be either.
Although we live fairly close to each other, our schedules rarely seem to align.
The conversation was lively, food was great, the evening was filled with laughter and the usual talk about getting together again soon.
High-level plans of "we should", but nothing concrete.
Later, I found myself reflecting on this all too familiar sc
gmaylone
Feb 34 min read
Finding Joy Amidst Materialism: Lessons from Our Cruising Adventures
Cruising has given us unforgettable memories — but it has also shown us something deeper. Beyond the luxury and entertainment lies a powerful contrast: poverty, resilience, and a kind of joy rooted in family and connection. This is a reflection on what really matters, what we’ve lost along the way, and how slowing down helps us see life more clearly.
gmaylone
Jan 226 min read
New Year, Same Zoo!
Some people go through life with some semblance of silence in their heads. Or at least if there is noise, it is the noise of daily life.
I am not one of those people.
When the world gets loud, chaotic, or just slightly unhinged, my brain doesn’t panic — there is always a soundtrack instantly at the ready.
gmaylone
Jan 55 min read
Listening to the Unknown: Embracing the Journey of Uncertainty
Today is Tuesday.
Christmas has passed, and 2025 is rapidly slipping into the rearview mirror the way years do, even if you think you are paying attention.
2026 is already close, just outside, beating on the door, and the sense that time just keeps accelerating feels more pronounced than ever.
This morning, I did something I almost never do.
I rolled over and went back to sleep.
I woke up much later than usual— 8:00 a.m. — and the time startled me.
It shouldn’t have; But it
gmaylone
Dec 30, 20255 min read
The Coffee Cup Prophet at Christmas
This morning, before the day decided what it wanted from me, I noticed a half-filled coffee cup on the table. It was still warm enough to matter.
gmaylone
Dec 22, 20255 min read
Holiday Gratitude — A Midwestern Reflection
The holidays have a way of pulling us backward and forward at the same time. Growing up in the Midwest of the ’70s and ’80s gave many of us a simple, grounded view of life — one that feels worlds away from today. This season, I’m finding gratitude in the memories, the miles, and the people who shaped both.
gmaylone
Dec 17, 20254 min read
The World Is Strange, and We Live in It, a grocery store misunderstanding.
A quick grocery run turns into a tiny comedy of errors when a simple word like “absolve” sends a cashier into suspicion and a stranger steps in to save the moment. Just another day in checkout lane seven.
gmaylone
Dec 12, 20253 min read
When the Christmas Gift List Becomes a Hostage Situation and Stops Feeling Like Giving
At some point in adulthood, you wake up one morning, look at your bank account, look at your Amazon cart, and realize something profound:
You are buying Christmas gifts for people you might not have had a real conversation with since pay phones were a thing.
gmaylone
Dec 10, 20254 min read
Living at the Crossroads of History, My life of Movement and Momentum!
Living at the Crossroads of History: In the 1980s, I served as a soldier stationed in Germany.
It was a world living in the shadow of the Cold War.
The Berlin Wall was still a scar on the landscape — a reminder of what fear can build and what war can leave behind. I witnessed history firsthand: the wall’s collapse in 1989, the tense days leading into Desert Storm, and the complicated human realities that are never captured in textbooks.
I remember that night the wall came d
gmaylone
Dec 3, 20254 min read
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